Friday, January 30, 2009

A Definite Maybe

We'll know more on Monday, but for now, it looks like adopting Maxim is a definite, well a definite maybe. It's complicated to explain in a few lines, so we'll leave it at that for now. Also, we have to move apartments early tomorrow and won't have internet in that apartment. So other than going to internet cafe to pay to check our e-mail (yes, please still e-mail us), we won't be much online until probably Tuesday when we'll move to a longer stay apartment which will have internet, assuming the adoption is a go. We were given the most stressful interview of our lives today, let me tell you! To be fair to the orphanage director, it was obvious that she cares a lot about the kids there. Maxim is a very sweet boy with an engaging smile, a little behind in some areas, but that is to be expected for the most part. Sorry, we weren't allowed to take pictures yet; it has to be more certain first. Again, we hope to have some by Monday or Tuesday as well. Then the paperwork begins in earnest. It takes weeks in this region (yes, even in Kiev) to get this all accomplished, though our translator says she'll try to "hurry up" anything that is possible for us. Let's hope so--we're both ready to come home!!

5 comments:

  1. You guys are in my thoughts and I will continue to wish you luck and keep praying that things work out for you and your future family!

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  2. We'll keep on praying that adopting Maxim works out and is able to process quickly!

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  3. This sounds good! I am keeping my fingers crossed for you. It's been a bit nuts here this week due to the weather, but we have been wondering how things were progressing. I am feeling good right now for you!!!!!!

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  4. My thoughts are with you both! Hang in there! Hopefully, next week will go smooth for you and things will start to progress in the process!

    Take care!

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  5. We're family 475 from IUAFN. I read you are worried about the delays Maxim has, and the long term effects. When we adopted in 2002 I had the same worries. Once you get Maxim home and adjust become a 'family', it won't be such a worry. As you already said, there are no guarantees. It's such a big leap, adopting a child you just met. Believe me, the worries about possible delays shrink as you get to know him and your love for him grows.
    Cath

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